I have been a serious victim of stalking from the past 6 years. I can tell accurately how a stalker thinks, behaves, how they stalk online and offline and their behavioral traits etc. They are mostly mentally disturbed psychopaths, who remain hidden due to their cowardly nature. They often become the uninvited Public Representatives trying to "manage" the victim's relationship with other people with their lies and deception. At the same time they are also eyeing on the possible benefits they might gain through those unofficial conversations. This makes them the perfect "human parasites" that feed on others but causing them harm at the same time.
Often times they "fit in" some kind of a wrong impression about their victim to exploit the known foolishness of people. Yes, they are extremely cunning and know how people think and make mistakes. They would make people say crap and then call them "parrot kings" behind their backs! They usually live in a fake profile, faking themselves all the time without any shame.
They will learn from the one they are stalking but will declare themselves as the teachers just because they are 10 15 years older. They learn out of insecurities than for the sake of gaining good knowledge. One pathetic stalker used to give some not-so-good pictures of mine to other people and would click photos without my knowledge at places. I can understand a haughty manly woman doing that to a girl. But a biological man doing that is really abnormal.
But the most shocking part of these experiences is how they convince people with education ,great achievements and families to help them accomplish their criminal ambitions. For example, if I am studying at a university to get back to work with better qualifications, and the stalking managers “manage” to get links within the institution to manipulate people, I cannot expect people of the university to not support them. Even if I tell them about the kind of harassment that I have received from those stalkers, they will still be convinced that the stalkers have crept into the system and are committing the crime for a “good” and "valid" reason and that they too should be a part of it in destroying my career and affecting my personal life. Many fall victim to prejudices and lies and act according to some blind assumptions without realizing what effect it might have on the other person. They feel they too should start threatening the victim like those cowards do, should follow their instructions and should speak the way they are asked to. My social media pages were flooded with "acid attack" posts before.
Also, those supporters might be praying to God for a good future of their own family. This raises a serious question about the core mentality, intelligence and morality of the society itself. A person’s official occupation, qualification or other background doesn’t necessarily tell us about how he or she is going to handle a criminal who is not behind the bars. But most important observation is that most of such people are those who are inexperienced in terms of realizing what the most important things in life are. Or to be more precise, I can say that, wisdom doesn’t come with age or experience itself. Wisdom comes to those who choose to do what is morally and professionally correct even if it means facing retaliation or not getting some attractive benefit, which might or might not be good for them in the long term.
Learning is a continuous process as people say. But choosing to learn what is correct is a matter of choice of the person. I don’t know if cultural or personal values affect such choices. I feel it is completely dependent on how the person thinks and his or her own sense of judgment. Today’s society reflects one thing, and that is, very few people actually have the courage and attitude to act according to his or her own understanding and not become someone else’s weapon of crime! And more importantly in correcting one’s mistake. Because most of the times, whenever I have reminded someone of what the right thing is, he/she has only done that more, out of some kind of wrath or ego. I guess that is one reflection of a person’s moral learning right from childhood till a matured age. It would be foolishness on my part if I expect any kind of empathy or consideration from those who are "supporters" of criminals.
Thinking about how I have been from the last several years, I feel like a lonely island and an outlier, because I don’t think anyone else would have made the choices I did. But one significant improvement has been in my courage to speak the truth always and not keep quiet because that in reality does not help in any way.
Often times they "fit in" some kind of a wrong impression about their victim to exploit the known foolishness of people. Yes, they are extremely cunning and know how people think and make mistakes. They would make people say crap and then call them "parrot kings" behind their backs! They usually live in a fake profile, faking themselves all the time without any shame.
They will learn from the one they are stalking but will declare themselves as the teachers just because they are 10 15 years older. They learn out of insecurities than for the sake of gaining good knowledge. One pathetic stalker used to give some not-so-good pictures of mine to other people and would click photos without my knowledge at places. I can understand a haughty manly woman doing that to a girl. But a biological man doing that is really abnormal.
But the most shocking part of these experiences is how they convince people with education ,great achievements and families to help them accomplish their criminal ambitions. For example, if I am studying at a university to get back to work with better qualifications, and the stalking managers “manage” to get links within the institution to manipulate people, I cannot expect people of the university to not support them. Even if I tell them about the kind of harassment that I have received from those stalkers, they will still be convinced that the stalkers have crept into the system and are committing the crime for a “good” and "valid" reason and that they too should be a part of it in destroying my career and affecting my personal life. Many fall victim to prejudices and lies and act according to some blind assumptions without realizing what effect it might have on the other person. They feel they too should start threatening the victim like those cowards do, should follow their instructions and should speak the way they are asked to. My social media pages were flooded with "acid attack" posts before.
Also, those supporters might be praying to God for a good future of their own family. This raises a serious question about the core mentality, intelligence and morality of the society itself. A person’s official occupation, qualification or other background doesn’t necessarily tell us about how he or she is going to handle a criminal who is not behind the bars. But most important observation is that most of such people are those who are inexperienced in terms of realizing what the most important things in life are. Or to be more precise, I can say that, wisdom doesn’t come with age or experience itself. Wisdom comes to those who choose to do what is morally and professionally correct even if it means facing retaliation or not getting some attractive benefit, which might or might not be good for them in the long term.
Learning is a continuous process as people say. But choosing to learn what is correct is a matter of choice of the person. I don’t know if cultural or personal values affect such choices. I feel it is completely dependent on how the person thinks and his or her own sense of judgment. Today’s society reflects one thing, and that is, very few people actually have the courage and attitude to act according to his or her own understanding and not become someone else’s weapon of crime! And more importantly in correcting one’s mistake. Because most of the times, whenever I have reminded someone of what the right thing is, he/she has only done that more, out of some kind of wrath or ego. I guess that is one reflection of a person’s moral learning right from childhood till a matured age. It would be foolishness on my part if I expect any kind of empathy or consideration from those who are "supporters" of criminals.
Thinking about how I have been from the last several years, I feel like a lonely island and an outlier, because I don’t think anyone else would have made the choices I did. But one significant improvement has been in my courage to speak the truth always and not keep quiet because that in reality does not help in any way.
